June 8, 2009 was the day my life changed. My biopsy was positive. All I could think about was getting the cancer out of me! After all the tests and scans were done I had a bilateral mastectomy. I had expanders put in at that time. After months of infections and drainage the expanders finally had to come out. I did 4 rounds of chemo and lost my hair. It was a very hard time. But with the support of my fiancee and family and coworkers I made it.
Almost one year to the day June 10 I had a DIEP flap reconstruction. I feel whole again. Although painful it was definitely worth it. My new breasts are a daily reminder that I have a new life.
Now the sun is a little brighter, the flowers are a little sweeter, and the grass is a little greener and it's all on my side.
Ocean, NJ
