My Grandmother had breast cancer in 1993 passed away 1995, my mother had breast cancer in 1994, passed away 2003. I was offered a gene test way back then when I was 30 but it wasn't really discussed like today with genetic specialists - just that it was available to have a gene test. I probably didn't want to know as I didn't believe it would happen to me or what could they do even if I had the gene. I did not want to live with a fact.
In 2005, following a strict mammogram & ultrasound regime set by my doctor, it was discovered I too had breast cancer. I ate right, I never smoked, I breastfeed, I was a social drinker only - I thought I did everything right. I did get tested for the purpose of my family being informed and I do have the gene BRACA2 - I have had breast cancer now in each breast, double masectomy with chemo/ray treatment at 40. Even though my cancers were small they were high grade. I plan to live to tell people you must trust your doctor and your instincts and go for tests. I am a 3 year survivor now. You must stay informed and read any of the signs and symptoms and be proactive with your health care. If you know you can have a preventative masectomy - which I believe is a lot better option than cancer and cancer treatment - please consider this option. I know if I had my time again I would jump at it.
Do not ever think it cannot happen to you....stay on top of it - I now pray for a cure for my kids...
Sydney, Australia