A Not-So-Average Experience From Your Average Woman

My story began in 1978 when I was first diagnosed with breast cancer, resulting in a total mastectomy. This procedure was successful and I was in remission until 1991, when the cancer unexpectedly returned. I then had my second total mastectomy. In the interim I had reconstructive surgery with silicone implants. After the '91 mastectomy, I decided to have the implants removed, even though I was fortunate to not have had any complications with the implants themselves.

I have been blessed to be a 31 year survivor of not one, but two total mastectomies. Reflecting on my story, the most important element in beating cancer, in my estimation, is to keep a positive attitude during and beyond recovery. The Lord let me live to raise two wonderful boys, I have now met my 5 grandchildren who I am watching grow up, and I am now looking forward to meeting my great-grandchildren [which will hopefully be coming sooner rather than later:)]. I am also now working down my life-long to-do list and most recently scratched off "Trip to Hawaii."

If I could send one other message to women beyond staying positive if you are diagnosed with cancer, it would be to take proactive measures with breast health. Breast cancer does not exist according to predictive rules. In fact, contrary to "normalcy," my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer 10 years AFTER I was. And before our own experiences, there was no history of breast cancer in our family. This goes to show that regardless of age or family history, always get your mammograms and do self-examinations.

Deana Stayner
Angola, IN